diff --git a/astrbot/core/config/default.py b/astrbot/core/config/default.py
index 78c56470d..a8fab4ea9 100644
--- a/astrbot/core/config/default.py
+++ b/astrbot/core/config/default.py
@@ -37,6 +37,7 @@ DEFAULT_CONFIG = {
         },
         "no_permission_reply": True,
         "empty_mention_waiting": True,
+        "friend_message_needs_wake_prefix": False,
     },
     "provider": [],
     "provider_settings": {
@@ -270,6 +271,11 @@ CONFIG_METADATA_2 = {
                         "type": "bool",
                         "hint": "启用后，当消息内容只有 @ 机器人时，会触发等待回复，在 60 秒内的该用户的任意一条消息均会唤醒机器人。这在某些平台不支持 @ 和语音/图片等消息同时发送时特别有用。",
                     },
+                    "friend_message_needs_wake_prefix": {
+                        "description": "私聊消息是否需要唤醒前缀",
+                        "type": "bool",
+                        "hint": "启用后，私聊消息需要唤醒前缀才会被处理，同群聊一样。",
+                    },
                     "segmented_reply": {
                         "description": "分段回复",
                         "type": "object",
diff --git a/astrbot/core/pipeline/waking_check/stage.py b/astrbot/core/pipeline/waking_check/stage.py
index d18a0b5c8..95f70fd4d 100644
--- a/astrbot/core/pipeline/waking_check/stage.py
+++ b/astrbot/core/pipeline/waking_check/stage.py
@@ -25,6 +25,10 @@ class WakingCheckStage(Stage):
         self.no_permission_reply = self.ctx.astrbot_config["platform_settings"].get(
             "no_permission_reply", True
         )
+        # 私聊是否需要 wake_prefix 才能唤醒机器人
+        self.friend_message_needs_wake_prefix = self.ctx.astrbot_config[
+            "platform_settings"
+        ].get("friend_message_needs_wake_prefix", False)
 
     async def process(
         self, event: AstrMessageEvent
@@ -68,7 +72,7 @@ class WakingCheckStage(Stage):
                     event.is_at_or_wake_command = True
                     break
             # 检查是否是私聊
-            if event.is_private_chat():
+            if event.is_private_chat() and not self.friend_message_needs_wake_prefix:
                 is_wake = True
                 event.is_wake = True
                 event.is_at_or_wake_command = True